But what's the point of reeling people back in? I mean if I die hard enabled him I get it but I don't. May have a bit in the beginning 3 years ago but once I figured out what I was dealing with my enabling halted (a process).
And no this is not the first time I've gone no contact with him it is in fact the second.
And thank you keepingthefaith for pasting my past thread. It helped to a degree.