He told me we had until Monday to get his money or he was going to cause us hardship with our business and see us homeless .
Katie, that's a very bad thread, I would call the police. You've read the stories in the newspapers...family member goes crazy and ___(fill in the blank).
I would also have home security installed.
Please step back and look at this through the eyes of someone who is not buried in the chaos. His mind is not "right", he is on drugs or desperate for them and he is making very serious threats...and very well may carry them out.
You know my heart hurts for you, I have been where you are and there is no way to stay connected without hurting ourselves badly.
I am so sorry this is happening in your life, I truly do know your pain. Please detach and stay safe.
Hug