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Old 02-25-2015, 08:23 AM
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ladyscribbler
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Todd, I looked back at some of your previous threads. Four years ago you came in here in crisis mode because she was in jail for legal problems related to her drinking.
You are in crisis mode now because she is in jail for legal problems related to her drinking.
In between then and now she has: taken out a restraining order against you, started doing porn to fund her lifestyle, been in and out of jail. Through it all there has been one constant- her drinking.
What are you doing to move past this relationship? This woman is your ex and you are still absolutely fixated on her- her life, her choices, her (self-created) problems.
Are you in Alanon? Counseling? Anything that puts your focus back on you, where it belongs?
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