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gettingstronger thanks for grounding me. You're right, being upset about him is just a way for me to avoid making progress on my own life. Thinking . . .and praying . . .
merryygoround1, I did feel caught off-guard, even when I know better. I think because I've been trying to trust him more. He complained about me not trusting him, that it hurts his feelings. Well, boo hoo. A person who doesn't earn trust doesn't merit it from me. My AH really doesn't get how lies are so damaging to relationships.
Back to the plan -- protecting myself and my kids in our future.
I know how feel. Once there was any chance my AW would drink it would derail my entire life. Things that I could do naturally all of a sudden were impossible to do. That is a big problem and I really understand how you feel. I'm very sorry for that. I have found that anyone trying to make you trust them doesn't trust themself. The lies and half truths are deal breakers for me. Stay strong...