I have started always asking, "What does the parenting plan say?" The last time I asked that, he had an answer right away. It's like he figured out thatthe parenting plan determines the outcome. Brilliant!
He still hasn't learned to ask for anything. I am starting to wonder if he even knows the difference between telling me his needs/wishes and actually asking me to provide something for him. Sigh... I just keep reminding him to ask.