Dear gettingstronger
That meeting is for you, for your side of the street (hallway). If you want to go to your meeting, go.
Lies. They reveal how much the A despises himself, that he can't live in truth. My AH just lied to me last night, over and over, about how he went to 2 meetings back to back. Nope. Twas a lie. The lies make me sad, angry, and manipulated. I think feeling manipulated is the worst of all of the feelings. How to deal? I truly don't know. I got in an argument this morning about his lies once he revealed that he had lied.
It's impossible to ignore the lies because their recovery, or not, affects our future.
To me, the lies are as bad as the drinking.