Originally Posted by
INgal 
For those in recovery....how do you want to be treated by those who's lives you've impacted by your alcoholism or drug abuse?
With respect & affection. When I'm in a good way, if I need help, I'll ask for it. When I'm in a bad way, I'll resent anyone who offers it.
Originally Posted by
INgal What is the most helpful thing a family member can say to you that would aid in your recovery?
Occasionally, it would be helpful to be told that someone cares.