I'm definitely going to look for that book. I just purchased the Al-Anon 12 Steps book on Amazon. I am going to immerse myself in them and hopefully find some peace of mind.
I have to work really hard at not making the drinking my problem. I am a "fixer" by nature and it pains me so to see people I love hurting and struggling but I know he has to make the choice to change. I cannot do it for him.