I am going to attend my first Al-Anon meeting on Thursday evening. I hope it helps. I really don't want to leave him right now. I feel like I would be abandoning him at the worst point in his life and I don't want to see him spiral even more. I definitely need to have the discussion about my limits and make him understand that I cannot be in a relationship with him if he can't commit to recovery. I don't expect him to be perfect, but he needs to try. I am hoping that by going to Al-Anon he will see that I am putting in the work and maybe he will decide to do the same. He thinks he can work through the disease without intervention and I think we all know that's not possible. Thank you for your input. I hope to get more help from this site. I feel better already just getting so much off my chest.