It started with his dates for his vacation - then of course demands on when and if he would pay child support. The lawyers say let him threaten that and they will take him to court so fast. PS he makes a lot of money but this is always where every other month - it is lets make a deal. CONTROL.
I start to be nice or civil and then he acts like he still can dictate what I have to do with manipulative comments like - we call the shots. we can decide things between the two of us without lawyers.