I would identify what your hooks are BC it has been my experience that they will try to use every last one of them to hook you back into a relationship. I want to warn you that once your initial adrenaline rush wears off its challenging not to get pulled back in. The fact that you seem happy rather than indifferent about recent events says to me that you still care and you are vulnerable. Jodie you are strong and doing so well. Just be really careful not to be pulled in okay.