I'm tempted to just show up at his doorstep this AM and say, "I'm here for the dog!" Completely unannounced, LOL. But I won't. I have to set our next appointment with the mediator soon. STBXAH had the appraiser over yesterday so I know that his refinance is in the works.
I also found out that he's going back home to the east coast next weekend(leaving on Thursday) for 5 days. I got the email from the airline(he hasn't updated his email with a lot of companies yet), I wonder when he was planning on telling me that he won't be around for 5 days?