Originally Posted by
lizatola 
When I told him that we really need to get back to discussing what's best for our son, he said, "What about what's best for ME? Does anyone ever consider me?"
The mediator was there to hear that, right? Because, you're right, it should be all about what is best for your son. His little rant was more than just self-pity, it was selfish.
I'm so glad your new place is starting to feel like home. (And I kind of look forward to hearing that you're mad as heck at him for pulling stuff like that, rather than feeling sorry for him.) ((((hugs))))