I left him!
Hey guys, I've been lurking around here for years. I've posted under different usernames quite a while back but only a few times, but got a new email and can't remember my old user ID and password so I have to create another account. Anyways, I have been with my alcoholic/drug addict husband for 4 years, married for 2 1/2 and filed for divorce on the 30th! It's been a long journey but I just wanted to say thank you for everyone for posting and always sharing their ES&H here. This has been a real tool for me. Thanks so much and I just wanted to share the good news!
MCH