Hi Mill,
I have horrible redness in my face when I drink. It subsides a bit when I stop, but I think it is partly a genetic thing. It still happens when I am sober, but not as much.
I bought this Eucerin redness relief soap & mousterizer, and it helps. But I haven't found anything that takes it away completely. I am hoping that with more sobriety, it goes away!
I know how you feel about this though, it's like a badge of drinking that you wear every day.