Thanks SDH. I will add the book to my list, and do so e reading on the Rational Recovery thread too. Your right, like most things this is something a person has to understand in full not take a bit of it. I think I do grasp whats most important is what goes on inside the mind.
Thanks for posting here, appreciate it.
If you have any other book suggestions, i really do like to read and learn so please share here anytime ok.