I get this, I think
I also want to be adored, from time to time, I need a positive emotional response from hubby but whenever I ask for it, it backfires, he goes back into his shell & I resent lots of things about that.
I know in order to be whole I must sit with my uncomfortable emotions and allow them to come and go without acting (AV)
When I am having unfulfilled needs I realise that I can only change myself and my thinking to come to terms with those feelings which pass by unnoticed without action.
Thanks for being here SR
Driving my wagon of hope through beautiful views on my road to myself