Most importantly, I feel so so much better today. Clear headed and sober. I will just enjoy things as they are and if that is not enough for me in the future then I will deal with it then.
absolutely, I agree, if you are enjoying today, there is no reason to think, all things being the same that you will not wake up to another positive day. I have really come to believe that if you shake off and put aside negative thoughts about what you think will happen and focus on and believe the positive side will occur, more often than not, it will. There was a 21 day challenge-
21 day challenge: The Happiness Advantage - The Positivity Project
and the people that I spoke to that stuck to the challenge did find their lives and attitudes towards people changed for the good. After re reading that challenge, I can see where it would help my outlook towards things to the better. Can't hurt anyway.
[I]Do you all love love? Are you dotting your i's with hearts in your dreams? [/
I'm with Tam overrated, I think we have all had and still have moments of pure affection and joy in being with their partner, but that level cannot be maintained for any length of time without consequences. I am happy with easy companionship and sharing of memories and life.