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Old 01-24-2015, 08:00 AM
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Liz....I have been at the hands of a narcissistic person, before. I agree about the "big girl panties". Except that the panties shouldn't be of the delicate and ruffly variety.
They should be more like Swedish steel.

If you don't want to get sucked into yet another never ending tango with him....I believe that you are going to have to play hardball.

Narcissists just do not do "fair" or "reasonable".
Offer them your hand, and, they will take your arm....every single time! And, with pleasure.

I advise you to flank yourself with tough professionals and follow their advice. Keep your distance and show no weakness. Never expose your soft underbelly to a narcissist.
That is always where they take their aim.

If I sound overly rigid and tough...just ask anyone else who has dealt with a true naricccist. (like, hammer, maybe...LOL).

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