Oh that's recent! I did similar things in the very beginning of us realizing what was going on but I always put time limits on it. Like you need to be sober for 30 days before you can come back and he would always ALWAYS comply…then relapse. Last year he was sober from January to May and I swear it was the best our relationship has ever been. He'll go a few weeks without drinking and then relapse for a week. He went to rehab in August and then relapsed in October and can't string together much more than 30 days since then.