I don't think anyone makes it through life unscathed, but some people are better about keeping it to themselves than are others. Someone else's success is not your failure. We never really know what goes on inside another person's home. I've been shoked to learn of some of the devastating realities people I've known have lived with, when everything looked really good from the outside. Appearances are deceptive, and I think it's pretty rare that the person who appears to have it all actually does.