If your husband had cancer, would you hide his anti-nausea medication becuase you were tired of his puking all over the house from his chemo?
Sorry....I dont see how humiliating a man with a fatal disease is funny.
I doubt that when he was a little boy he said "Im gonna grow up and become a sick drunk so I can hurt all the people I love on purpose just to **** them off". He is sick and suffereing, whether you "believe" it or not.