Thanks all! I was digging in my closet today and found some old al-anon books that my Mom gave me, I'm going to start by trying to get some literature I think. Even though I have some great friends and family, I do sometimes feel all alone in this. Though they love us very much, no one lives it with us, you know? Getting things out here has made me feel better, and perhaps made me realize that the problem is still around even when the drinker is not. I'm glad I visited, you guys are very wise.
