Originally Posted by LexieCat

Isn't there a no-contact condition for his probation? Even if it allows contact concerning the kids, what he is sending you isn't an essential communication regarding visitation, health concern, etc. It's just to eff with you.

If you have any doubts or concerns, I'd still run them by an advocate. Remember, they are the EXPERTS when it comes to this stuff. No need for you to struggle with thinking it through on your own--that's pretty much what they are THERE for.