This. 100%.
I am getting ready to do the same b/c my X just told me I should have told him he could have the kids more over Xmas break. Um...nope. If you want to claim your time, do it yourself. He tried to also tell me I don't know what the divorce decree says. Haha. I am the one who drafted it with the attorney about a million times. He had no part in it but to sign it. I told him I am not his mommy and that he will have to learn to be adult enough to read the divorce decree and figure his own crap out, and if he does not like it to take me to court. Ha. I then hung up on him.
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Florence 
I keep a shared google calendar with my NPDx. Only I can edit it, and it shows when the kids should be where. If he doesn't look at it, not my problem.