The state itself says parents must make a good faith effort to be "flexible". Code to a narcissist loser that means he can intentionally blow off the kids and demand the time he bothers to show up and say I'm denying him time if I don't.
The plan seems pretty cut and dry that skipping his time isn't ok but this state all but rewards deadbeat parents to give them endless chances so it's f ing exhausting.
I have a text convo w him about him wanting the two particular says he didn't show up and a day of rants that I should have "reminded" him. To me that's insane. I'll NEVER remind him. Ever. That's per the kids therapist who I took the kids to bc he skipped his appt w her while away and she told me I was nuts to think I should remind him of his parenting time.
So yeah I guess I have good documentation...