Zoso, I am so sorry that she has been a victim of this terrible disease and glad she has reached out for help. I will keep her in my prayers.
My thoughts are that her family will have to work through this and find their own path, in their own time and in their own way. That said, some comforting words from you or helpful suggestions (like meetings) may be just what they need to hear right now. They probably feel very alone...if they only knew how "not alone" they are.
You can't fix them, they have to find their own way, but you can comfort them as much as you feel comfortable with.
Hugs and Merry Christmas, Zoso.
