I couldnt agree more Ladies.... 50 days since my divorce. Still sad but I am doing ok. I get sad over things, going out tonight for a fancy event and have no wedding ring to wear... and so on. But besides that he dragged me down with his disease and I was as sick as him. I just couldn't move away from it as I was so entwined.
Maybe he will get sober and work a program, but at least I don't have to live with his crisis every day.