Originally Posted by
hopeful4 
I am glad he is going, however he still seems to be focusing on your issues, not his. Unfortunately, rehab may not fix that.
I hope he goes for your own sanity and that of your children. I will pray he goes and that he embraces recovery.
XXX
Oh my yes....all of his concerns are wrapped up in how many men I am going to sleep with in his absence. I've NEVER been unfaithful to him...but according to him I have at least 4 or 5 times. I am fearful that rehab won't help that behavior.....and if it doesn't and he stays sober...will I still continue to take that verbal BS from him? I hope that I get better in my own recovery to be able to say no.
The cheating thing really is so insulting and degrading.
Although, I do have to share something funny here:
we see the same therapist- just separately:
I was telling my therapist about his ranting on me cheating. She nodded and said "Do you know what I told him about that?"
Me: "what?"
Therapist (breaks out in song) "if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife..." HA HA...I guess that shut him up. I laughed so hard when she told me that.
At least we could laugh about it, I guess.