Originally Posted by
changeneeded 
Oh, this puts my stomach in the topsy turvey stage. I think there are some of us that completely understand.
It is now my theory, that this is done to make you feel as bad as they do when the light is shun on the drinking, or addictive behavior. "
"So what if I drink like a fish and scare everyone in the house: you spend money on , on, uh.... COFFEE, ya, that's it..."
Well, change coffee to clothes and there you have it, LOL. Ok, so I have a nice wardrobe but once we divorce there will be no more additions to that closet so I sort of stocked up on some nice business blouses, a few dresses, dress sandals, etc. I can wear them to church now but if I need to interview for a job, at least I'll be prepared. OH, and I did spend some money on nicer cosmetics, too, after years of only buying Almay at Walmart. I figured I could splurge after 20 years of marriage.