omg FLASHBACK..
So to relate to your fury feelings I'll share. When my A starting getting really out of control, I used to call his parents. I think they were worse to him than the police. That would be the only way I could get him to stop. This would be after an hour + of alcoholic rage torment etc.
They would come over and try to talk to him and he would provide his tale of woe and one of his go-to's was money.. lack of.. one night, he disappeared for a minute...he went and printed a summary report of what I spent at Dunkin Donuts.
He marched back into the conversation as if he had found the smoking freaking gun. Prouder than a peacock.
LOOK AT THIIIIISSSSSS....... DO YOU SEE WHAT SHE'S DOINGGGGGGGG
I just stood there. I mean are you kidding me? He was spending (CHARGING) $600 + a month on beer and cigarettes.
all you have is coffee???
Just thought I would share. Maybe you feel a little better or maybe you chuckled at the ducks a little...