Well, yes. Its been a roller coaster. I've been with him going on 10 years, we were social drinkers for a good 6 of those 10 years but something happened somewhere along the way. This point we are at now is hardly a walk in the park but it's a lot better than it has been. I just meant he is not physically abusive...there are so many people out there dealing with situations I've not had to deal with.
I imagine one day I'll make my way to a meeting.