Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
No no don't quell the puns at all Lexie!
Suki, I totally agree about a house being a space and a home can be anywhere. I have a very small, old, house which I hated when xah lived here too. But with my kids I've made it a cozy home and my mortgage is no more than rent locally would be so I'm hoping I can stay here.... If it's not meant to be ill figure it out...
Depending on which Chapter bankruptcy you file, it's quite possible you can keep your house. I was set up on a monthly payment plan to pay the debts allotted to me after the bankruptcy. I chose to have those payment taken out of my paycheck, so it was taken care of before I ever saw my paycheck.
I hope you don't have to go the bankruptcy route, but if you do, you will survive and have a clean slate from which to start. I wish everything good for you and your girls. (((HUGS)))