My separated mate and I have been e-mailing back and forth since yesterday over this bankruptcy.
If he has a lawyer, tell him to have his lawyer contact your lawyer. Tell him your lawyer is handling it and you're done discussing it with him. It's a tricky place -- my ex didn't have a lawyer for a while, so he would contact my lawyer directly and rack up one hell of a bill for
me. My lawyer finally told him that "I will start billing you for any contact you make with me" and that ended that.