I have grace under pressure ...
Yes, I know exactly what you mean. I don't cave in because I get angry or frustrated. I do have to say, however, that I do feel hurt when things like this happen mostly to me it seems sometimes; always have a feeling of not being included, misled, etc. (because my mom made sure of it, smiling...Tomorrow is year 1 of her passing, TG) But I grew past those pains enough to keep going, always, knowing it was not my fault and I would find another way around or through the incident that day, or another day. So, that is where I am atm. Off to work! Must miss the traffic ... the 405 can be nasty.
e schöne tag!
Pach