Dop,
I was thinking about you some more and it came to me that we think we are invinsible. We work hard to get to a point where we CAN cope and then it is almost as tho we test ourselves. We push ourselves to the limit.
Right now the Beav is staying with (I won't say living with) me after 8 years of him being out there and I think I am strong enough to handle the worst he can dish out. What is up with that? Who in the heck do I think I am? The worst he can dish out is way beyond my capabilty to handle, and why should I have to try? I must say, so far so good, but it is like I am hanging around on the train track at the end of a tunnel watching for that light. Listening for the rumble of that engine knowing it is out there.
We are human...not superhuman. Maybe Kryptonite really does exist.
Hugs,
JT