Originally Posted by
AnvilheadII 
it's helpful to remember - the chances are very high that you are not the only person he is phoning or texting.
You are so very right AnvilheadII. He told me when we talked he had become interested in a coworker and she moved to a different shift so now he can't see her and he's upset....then you know what....he snickered, yeah for real he did. Then he puts these creepy posts on FB about some 22 yr old coming over to his apartment...he's 39! ( I've stopped looking at FB). So yeah....he's looking for anyone to throw into his bottomless pit of pain and melodrama. Anyone willing or unsuspecting. When we were together he was calling old drug friends and lovers behind my back during the last few years. So, now I'm the one he's calling behind someone else's back. Makes me sick...what a creep. Sometimes my brain still confuses the illusion of who he wanted me to think he was and who I wanted him to be with the reality of who he really is.