feeling stuck
I've been seeing a therapist and trying to go No contact with my ex. I've told him to not contact me unless it is about the kids. I am struggling daily with this although making it. He seems fo find a "reason" to txt me every couple of days. He sends txt msgs now about the kids. Like he is using them to make contact. I am finding myself feeling sorry for him. I think its normal but not sure how to handle it. He knows he has screwed up for the last time with me. I told him if he wants this he has to show me first and only then will we talk about it. Get sober and work a program. Its the words he uses that allow me to feel guilty and sorry for him. He thinks I'm abandoning him and have abandoned him by sticking to my guns. I think I made the right choice, I'm just looking for encouragement and support. Mu therapy session cant come soon enough.