I think you are making some good plans for you and your son's future.
It might be easier to get the house sold quicker if you and your son stayed
AH might drag his heels or shut down once he groks that you aren't going to
let him keep everything for himself.
You know, living lean can indeed be its own reward.
You will be OK out of this Liz--sorry for the short term BS you'll be hearing in advance