OMG Time - that could have been me talking. Why should we feel guilty? But I do. It nags me every day, I should have called her on Thanksgiving, she's all alone, she called my daughter before Thanksgiving and made some passive aggressive statements about how she would just stay in bed that day. And my daughter only answered the phone because she didn't recognize the number LOL. My kids, friends and SO are behind me 100%. So why do I still feel that nagging guilt?