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Old 11-18-2014, 02:35 PM
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Your father has no legitimate say in whether you remain married (and obviously, you know that). You have every right to stay married or not, and it is ONLY your decision whether to do so.

People get divorced with children. You can figure something out regarding the dogs.

Keep breathing, you don't have to decide anything this minute. Have you talked with a lawyer just to explore your options? That might give you some information to start thinking about how you might divorce if that's what you decide you want. You don't have to actually DO anything, just get some information. Information is power, and it can help a lot to sort out what one option or the other might really MEAN.
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