Well, a big test for me next week. My husband and I always host Thanksgiving for my family. This year though there are a few changes. One I am not inviting my baby sister and her family. For the last few years she has always made other plans so I have decided to stop asking. The second is I am still no contact with my mom. I told my other sister she could bring my mom as long as my mom understands she is not to say a single word to me. I know this wont work because the one thing my mom cant resist its a boundary. She loves destroying them.
So, I have to come up with a consequence which I think will be she has to leave immediately. I know that could ruin everything for everybody but I am not going to stuff my feelings anymore