Until addiction has pushed you to this point, it is hard for others and even ourselves to understand why or when we finally have had ENOUGH. I feel your pain, but I am also so glad you did what you did--he does have to face consequences like everyone else, hard as it is to enforce that boundary. Try to get some rest and don't spend too much time wringing your hands and heart over the call you made. Let it go, if you can, even if it happens slowly. Give yourself some space and time and self care. It will make all the difference, as will an Al-Anon or Nar-Anon meeting. There are plenty of people there who have had to do the same thing. Take care!