Yep, my kids have been stolen from too. But that was when he was a practicing alcoholic. Now that he does Meth, it is the next level crap.
And, if it is working for you to remember that, do it. I imagine you are like me. You put up with it for years because it was directed at you, but once the kids are involved, everything changed and it should.
What are you doing for you? Are you taking care of you right now?