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Old 11-13-2014, 08:03 AM
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lizatola
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Originally Posted by Rosiepetal View Post
You will drive yourself nuts trying to predict what will or will not happen.
Just try to focus on the now & take one day at a time, it's a lot more manageable.
Hugs.
Yeah, don't I know it, LOL! I've been making the gym a regular part of my routine these days just so I can work off my frustrations and agitation. Journaling, prayer, talking with friends, and staying as busy as possible still isn't working.

AH comes home today after being gone for 9 days. I did not miss him, I did not wonder EVER what he was or wasn't doing.....I don't think about him at all except to future trip about how he can and will try to manipulate this divorce.

There are days that I wish I was one of those people here on the boards who still loved their alcoholic and then there are days where I realize that my path is different and that a major boundary for me is that I just can't live with an alcoholic anymore. The love is gone and I doubt I'll ever get it back.
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