Everyone is different. Some self destruct and give up when faced with "their bottom". Some people don't have one. Some choose to go up and get out of the misery. Some need to be left with their own ****. It sorta brings you to that fork in the road. Some need that helping hand to say "Hey! Your worth it and I believe in you". One thing I do know is no matter what it takes or how long. I can never give up.