I'm sorry to hear that. just hope and pray things will turn out ok. you have done a lot so far. people have to make their own choices.
I wish more people could access SR for help. If he calls you, let us know. how can we help you ? I noticed you joined SR in 2010. with just 10 posts.
There are forums for what you are going through. SR friends will send you to the right place, to read and understand the situation .
Don't be a stranger, post often. That's what the site is for. "support"