It was me. Get an attorney, it's well worth it! Keep in mind, there are also laws about him "leaving you on his insurance." That is not possible a lot of times.
Originally Posted by
FireSprite 
I wouldn't even consider going through this without legal representation if I were you Liz. No way. What a load of Quacking.
I loved another member's way of handling this (maybe hopeful4?) - she did initial consultations with the divorce attorneys in her area that were known as the biggest sharks even though she ultimately retained someone else to represent her. By having just that initial consultation, she basically blocked her AH from bring able to retain them as it would then create a conflict of interest because technically, they had already advised her.
Get a lawyer!