I didn't mean to make anyone feel judged. This is able me in my life being harsh about issues that don't reflect a persons real value and wondering if I'm insane bc of that.
Like I said I only care about this with people I know in my real face to face life bc I fear I'll be judged somehow for their lack of "intellect" and this is clearly a carry over from my family of origin judging the world this way.
I mean, that said, grammar is a pet peeve and that's who I am. But I feel terribly if anyone now feels uncomfortable writing here bc of the context of this thread.