Originally Posted by
wanttobehealthy 
wish I had been less of a codie for so long bc maybe he would have hit bottom a long time ago and gotten help.
You don't know that at all...there is no telling how your lives might be different if things happened another way.
You are safe & healthy, your children are safe & healthy...that is all that matters. Had another path been taken, maybe you or your children wouldn't be safe & healthy right now.
You only know what you know, and you've done the best you can with what you had.
You're a hero!